A great story to read
and emulate!
ATTITUDE AND CHOICES
Michael is the kind
of guy you love to hate.
He is always in a
good mood and always has something positive to say.
When someone would
ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would
be twins!"
He was a natural
motivator.
If an employee was
having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on
the positive side of
the situation.
Seeing this style
really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I
don't get it! You
can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
Michael replied,
"Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices today.
You can choose to be
in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a
good mood.
Each time something
bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it.
I choose to learn
from it.
Every time someone
comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can
point out the positive side of life.
I choose the positive
side of life.
"Yeah, right,
it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it
is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all
the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations.
You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad
mood.
The bottom line: It's
your choice how you live your life."
I reflected on what
Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business.
We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life
instead of reacting to it.
Several years later,
I heard that Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling some 60 feet
from a communications tower.
After 18 hours of surgery
and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods
placed in his back.
I saw Michael about
six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied.
"If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"
I declined to see his
wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident
took place.
"The first thing
that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon to be born
daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered
that I had two choices: I could choose
to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."
"Weren't you
scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Michael continued,
"...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine.
But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of
the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read "he's a
dead man. I knew I needed to take action"
"What did you
do?" I asked.
"Well, there was
a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked
if I was allergic to anything. Yes, I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped
working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled,
"Gravity."
Over their laughter,
I told them, "I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not
dead."
Michael lived, thanks
to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I
learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude... after all
is said and done, is everything.